tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1796487427937375263.post467316654219740047..comments2023-10-25T04:27:12.872-07:00Comments on Traces of Ayden: StagesLindsayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07289549963275047672noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1796487427937375263.post-4449428127127896982009-10-16T21:40:34.724-07:002009-10-16T21:40:34.724-07:00I know these feelings are hard. You won't alwa...I know these feelings are hard. You won't always feel this way!!<br /><br />By the way, I have also read some of that blog about the twins drowning, that mom is very inpirational, as you are.<br /><br />Life will not always be this painful, Lindsay! <br /><br />Love you, Kelley - Grayson's mom foreverA Mother's Lovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00411629514460423349noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1796487427937375263.post-32280522753725192942009-10-15T16:01:53.258-07:002009-10-15T16:01:53.258-07:00Although I can't (& don't want to) ima...Although I can't (& don't want to) imagine your pain, your loss is unbearable. All I can think is that if you have doubts in what you are sharing, is that someone else, less brave than you will probably read these words and find comfort in them. You will reassure someone else that these feelings are "normal" "okay" and real. I know, these are probably not your intentions, just another way your sweet Ayden and your faith will touch someone else.Sabrinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04731071750335900792noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1796487427937375263.post-70914814302070871372009-10-15T14:21:37.069-07:002009-10-15T14:21:37.069-07:00I am grateful for your honesty.
I never felt or ...I am grateful for your honesty. <br /><br />I never felt or expressed anger towards God until my sister's husband died very unexpectedly twelve years ago leaving behind a 3 yr old and my sister was 6 months pregnant. The first Sunday after the funeral I left after we started singing. I cried and cried and was SO mad. And then scared that I was mad at God. But realized it was a huge turning point in my relationship with Him.<br /><br />Please keep sharing honestly - with us and God.<br /><br />Love youJillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06404401690426427970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1796487427937375263.post-3290559387305383112009-10-15T13:31:57.904-07:002009-10-15T13:31:57.904-07:00Thank you for being so "raw"...I don'...Thank you for being so "raw"...I don't think you're crazy...I think you're amazing...absolutely amazing...<br />thanks for sharing the journey<br />KathrynKathrynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13393971874722033232noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1796487427937375263.post-70712675096294716212009-10-15T12:03:55.877-07:002009-10-15T12:03:55.877-07:00oops...forgot to leave the blog address...here it ...oops...forgot to leave the blog address...here it is ~ http://ramerbunch.blogspot.com/Nikihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16156899706673886760noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1796487427937375263.post-47954074490127587862009-10-15T12:02:21.342-07:002009-10-15T12:02:21.342-07:00I don't know you but came across your blog thr...I don't know you but came across your blog through a friend of a friend's blog. I am so sorry for what you are going through and wish I could do something to help. I know you are probably flooded with all emotions on a daily basis and that must be so overwhelming. I'm praying for you that you are able to find some peace in this soon. Here is a blog of a mom who lost her 2 year old twins to a terrible drowning accident around the same time Ayden passed. She wrote a neat blog about "did you know" of the twins. Am hoping maybe it might help to see how someone else is dealing with the loss of their children ~ constantly praying for you ~ Niki in Va.Nikihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16156899706673886760noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1796487427937375263.post-44098604580295312472009-10-15T09:59:48.145-07:002009-10-15T09:59:48.145-07:00Hon, I would be angry to. How can you not be angr...Hon, I would be angry to. How can you not be angry? Again, when I was going thru infertility and someone I know very close to me was pregnant and planning to abort their baby, we even told them we would adopt the baby and pay all medical bills for them they still chose to abort their baby. ??? Why would God allow this? Why would God allow these people to conceive a baby and we are unable to? It doesn't make sense as does why Ayden was taken from you. We won't understand this side of Heaven. But...its normal to be angry. Like you said you will be with your sweet Ayden again. Vent to God and cry to God, he is always there for you and ALWAYS in control.Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11114096767190965587noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1796487427937375263.post-1452232998483939152009-10-15T08:09:07.784-07:002009-10-15T08:09:07.784-07:00I'm glad that you have shared your honest feel...I'm glad that you have shared your honest feelings. Anyone who has been in your situation needs to hear your honest feelings to know that they are not alone. I have just been reading your blog for over a week now, but I know that your honesty will help so many people who feel alone in their grieving. Thank you for your honesty and for revealing your heart to everyone.Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06247210315971096312noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1796487427937375263.post-13662188445988293432009-10-15T04:45:29.741-07:002009-10-15T04:45:29.741-07:00You can be as frank as you need to be. Be as anger...You can be as frank as you need to be. Be as angered, sad, resentful...anything. Anything to get you through this. I havent lost a child, but Im a mother and I really can only begin to imagine the level of pain your in. I try to put myself in your place and instantly I have a knot in my stomach, a lump in my throat and tears in my eyes. Im positive that your reality makes those feelings magnified by a billion...even trillion. So please, say ANYTHING you want! I dont know you and likely will never meet you but my heart is truly broken for you. I pray for you daily. I will pray that tonight goes great. Best of luck with your speech! If I lived by you Id be there in a minute! ((hugs)) from my family in MIChristinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15008215781734002655noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1796487427937375263.post-10800554323454619392009-10-15T04:03:31.673-07:002009-10-15T04:03:31.673-07:00Thank you for being so honest.
This is what the...Thank you for being so honest. <br /><br /> This is what the LORD says: "When seventy years are completed for Babylon, I will come to you and fulfill my gracious promise to bring you back to this place. 11 For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. 12 Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. 13 You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart. 14 I will be found by you," declares the LORD, "and will bring you back from captivity. [b] I will gather you from all the nations and places where I have banished you," declares the LORD, "and will bring you back to the place from which I carried you into exile."<br /><br /><br />I see Jeremiah 29:11 quoted a lot, but the other verses are overlooked sometimes...I love the idea of the Lord of Hosts bringing me "back from captivity."<br /><br />Praying for you!Savvyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15120530906387848081noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1796487427937375263.post-81197239926714731982009-10-15T03:35:10.176-07:002009-10-15T03:35:10.176-07:00You can feel anyway you want. . . It's ok. . ....You can feel anyway you want. . . It's ok. . . That is the amazing thing about God, we can go to him with our angry, our hopes and dreams, our true feelings. . . and he still loves us! Praying for you today! I wish I could be there, but must do FLU vaccinations at the free clinic.creative galhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13766949406687926860noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1796487427937375263.post-12435047673122648502009-10-14T20:50:17.871-07:002009-10-14T20:50:17.871-07:00I can't imagine your pain and don't know w...I can't imagine your pain and don't know what to say, but I want you to know that I am praying for you.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13521442755671981037noreply@blogger.com