tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1796487427937375263.post863475008224140375..comments2023-10-25T04:27:12.872-07:00Comments on Traces of Ayden: An apology and the daily update...Lindsayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07289549963275047672noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1796487427937375263.post-60050912871127061402010-11-26T11:42:28.841-08:002010-11-26T11:42:28.841-08:00so much of this post resonated with me. i never kn...so much of this post resonated with me. i never knew heartache until now either. ((hugs))Tiffanyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17906643480459302192noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1796487427937375263.post-20884934666933592162009-09-16T07:45:06.093-07:002009-09-16T07:45:06.093-07:00God bless you Lindsay. I know your heart is so hea...God bless you Lindsay. I know your heart is so heavy and burdened right now. You are so strong and brave even though I am betting you doubt that many days. I will continue to pray for you & Jeremy.<br /><br />I know Anna...I am a patient in her office. Anna is a precious person just like you. I think baby Jonah will be good for you. Baby Jonah couldnt be more lucky to have such a wonderful person to watch over him.pinksmwhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09591988683288800487noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1796487427937375263.post-28380399126125764212009-09-16T06:02:59.198-07:002009-09-16T06:02:59.198-07:00You have such a sweet spirit...it is evident in yo...You have such a sweet spirit...it is evident in your posts. <br /><br />Your apology is well stated, but I think that it is good that people can see how heartbroken you really are. For those who haven't lost a child, there is no way that they can even come close to imagining what it would be like. All parents let it run through their mind and they try to think about the worst possible pain that they could feel if it happened to them, but still, until it does happen, there is just no way to experience that agony. <br /><br />So, let it all out whenever you need to. Grief is about you and whatever you need to do to get through it, not what other people expect. <br /><br />Since our 2 year old son died last August, I feel the same way about all of the songs and hymns that I have been singing my entire life. They all have an entirely different meaning to me now...they actually MEAN something to me. The anticipation of heaven and how wonderful it will be...oh! I can hardly wait! I love the way you said that every word penetrates you. It is so true for me and my husband as well. And, as much as it hurts, I can't help but feel blessed that I am not just singing the words anymore, but actually experiencing the message in the song. <br /><br />And, like you, I turn down the radio when "those songs" come on. Sometimes, it is a good thing not to lose it. I am just now after 13months able to not cry when I see all of those "reminders" in the store. I am just now able to look at other little boys without sobbing uncontrollably. <br /><br /><br />I am so sorry for your loss. I am sorry that we both know the reality of this pain. It just doesn't seem right that anyone should have to feel this way, but I too, am confident in God's sovereignty and plan. <br /><br />I am waiting for Jesus' return with as much anticipation as you are! Won't it be glorious when we all rise! I can't wait to hold my son again.<br /><br />With many tears for you,<br />AngieMark's Mommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14603130027027062924noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1796487427937375263.post-1918880559797513612009-09-15T18:28:49.327-07:002009-09-15T18:28:49.327-07:00Oh how I remember the "questions"...stil...Oh how I remember the "questions"...still get them. "How many kids to you have" "Did you adopt Emily because you didn't think you could get pregnant..." They will never end, but you will get stronger and able to answer without tears. I also remember the Ambien!<br />Thinking about you - KelleyA Mother's Lovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00411629514460423349noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1796487427937375263.post-81553693336574473202009-09-15T10:00:59.357-07:002009-09-15T10:00:59.357-07:00Dear Lindsay,
I can't wait for you to keep me:...Dear Lindsay,<br />I can't wait for you to keep me:) My mom couldn't have asked for a better helper or friend. I know I will be loved to pieces. I will love you right back!<br />Love,<br />Jonah Sams<br />(aka Anna..love you Lindsay!)Annahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01983708325362573906noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1796487427937375263.post-27424039770985187232009-09-15T05:24:48.824-07:002009-09-15T05:24:48.824-07:00have you checked the directory to see if you recog...have you checked the directory to see if you recognize a picture of the little girl?<br /><br />and i think keeping Jonah when he arrives sounds like a great idea. you will do a wonderful job--though it will be hard at first. <br /><br />can't wait to see the additions to the garden!Laurenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06326031737688016062noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1796487427937375263.post-4901431583624819212009-09-15T05:13:31.047-07:002009-09-15T05:13:31.047-07:00Just a stranger following your story. I have a son...Just a stranger following your story. I have a son same age as your Ayden. I'm so very glad to hear that you'll be keeping Jonah. I'm sure he will be such a welcomed change. Hang in there!Lexiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15465536157664382937noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1796487427937375263.post-62059878885592480572009-09-15T04:16:50.061-07:002009-09-15T04:16:50.061-07:00Praying God gives you peace. Peace.Praying God gives you peace. Peace.Savvyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15120530906387848081noreply@blogger.com